Thanks Rosina!! (Part 2)

第１Ｏ題有關ＢＢ近期會自己走去露台個狗厠所自閉係咪唔lumlum:

Rosina: 「no! he just needs some air and private time! No problem」  ( 唔係唔lumlum就ok啦) 

我﹕「唔會好臭咩？toliet喎........」

Rosina: 「no! he doesnt feel smelly!!」

第１１，１２題有關baby:

Rosina: 「Yes!! He knows that you are pregnant!! You must be very careful as he is not trusted!! He might hurt the baby」  ( 佢一早知我有baby啦！可能早過我知！話要好小心！因為ＢＢ信唔過！可能真係會傷到baby) 

我﹕「咁...咪好大鑊!!」

Rosina: 「I send him a picture of baby and he turns his head!!」  ( 佢地溝通會用圖畫！ＢＢ見到baby圖就擰轉面唔睇！而見到學行baby大少少就望下！好少少！) 

我﹕「唉!!」

Rosina: 「不過唔洗咁擔心住! 仲有８个月時間同佢溝通同話佢知唔會唔理佢！一樣咁鍚佢！仲可以攞ultra sound比ＢＢ睇！出院前仲可以攞Ｄ有baby味野比佢聞！ 」 

 第１３，１４題有關屋企:

Rosina: 「He doesnt feel boring when he is alone at home! dont think of buying a new puppy to be with him!!」  ( ＢＢ唔覺得悶！千其唔好打算買新狗仔陪佢) 

第１５題有關Simbaba:

Rosina: 「Is that someone pass away??」 

我﹕「Yes! It is  a cat! Is it better if I give you a photo of Simba?」  (跟住我就擺左本愛書You can heal Your Life出黎，然後攞Simba同Loulou張相比Rosina睇) 

Rosina: 「Oh My GOD! This is a magical cat!! A very special and spiritual cat!! TEll Lou that it wil lnever leave her forever! His energy is still there!! It saved and healed Lou in some ways already!」  ( Simbaba 係好神奇好有靈性嘅貓！佢永遠唔會離開Lou同已經幫左同醫左Loulou一啲野！) 

我﹕「Did he come back and visit BB? Does BB know Simba has gone? 」

Rosina: 「佢都有黎過探ＢＢ!! 動物嘅空間感同人唔同!!所以無話死左定點？？？ 」 (唔太明白!! ) 

我﹕「How about BB? Is he spiritual?」

Rosina: 「ＢＢ係相對地grounded一Ｄ！佢地一齊大時, Simbaba都有教到佢一d野!!  」 

第１６至１７題有關點解ＢＢ皮膚成日敏感同有乜唔鐘意:

Rosina: 「He shows me some smelly thing? Maybe it is some chemicals in the cleaner?」(ＢＢ話有啲難聞嘅味！可能係對清潔劑嘅某啲化學成分敏感) 

我﹕「Oh!! the Pet shop guess this too!! So i have changed it already」 

Rosina: 「He shows me he doesnt like crowded place? Dont bring him to the street with crowds」(ＢＢ唔鐘意多人) 

我﹕「I guess he is talking about too many people in our home!!」 (我估ＢＢ講緊唔鐘意屋企太多人) 

最後講數解決佢個biting problem:

(一講到呢部份ＢＢ就入廚房唔傾了!! 之前一直在旁邊一齊坐的) 

我﹕「我決定如果佢再咬人(不論有無流血, 總之佢意圖咬人的話), 都會立即捉佢出露台而且關門困住佢係出面overnight一晚, 然後1星期無零食!! 如果乖乖地當然日日有野食同lumlum啦!!」

Rosina: 「so I will send him these by pictures!!」(佢閉目同BB溝通) 「I am sorry!! I have to ask you a question first! Did you say you wont keep him if he Bite again??」(佢問我有無話唔要BB了, 如果佢再咬人)

我﹕「Yes! 前兩晚佢又咬老公時我好傷心好忟憎喊住同佢講的！」  (又係ＢＢ自己話比Rosina知) 

Rosina: 「He knows that biting will upset you, and he is not a lier! He said he really bit before! And sorry that I have to ask if you always cried before this time??」  ( ＢＢ知佢咬人令我好唔開心！佢無講大話，佢承認自己有咬人！Rosina話有d狗仔會話"no!!! 我無咬過人"!!! 跟住又問: 咁你以前會唔會成日喊?)

 我﹕「Yes! Before I quited my job!! I always cry！」  (Yes!! 我以前返工辛苦成日喊) 

Rosina: 「Because he said that mama always cry before la!!! not because of me la!!?」  ( ＢＢ話: 媽媽以前都成日喊啦!! 都唔係關我事啦!!!衰野... 駁咀!! 但好好笑!! )

最後rosina重複同BB講左幾次!! 佢算係應承左!! 而rosina亦建議我同老公一齊搵個 dog trainer教下BB規矩同教下我地Control佢!! 而且話BB啲牙仔可能要check下！

手軟..................

Thanks Rosina!! (Part 1)

Thanks Rosina for talking with us for such a long period of time!!

Thanks Rosina for negotiate with BB about his biting problem!! 

Thanks Rosina for telling us about Simbaba is such a special and spiritual cat!!

以下係會議紀錄！大家全程用英文傾，但我會中英並用同簡化重點咁打番出黎喇

首先Rosina話BB係一隻好dominant, strong will同aggressive嘅「人仔」，唔係狗仔，佢當自己係人！

跟住佢話BB當自己細個啲 : "I feel I am five"!! But 事實上佢係７歲了！

第１題有關去Pet Shop冲涼嘅問題:

Rosina問: 「係咪有轉過Pet Shop?」  (我無講過！ＢＢ話佢知！)

我﹕「係呀！搬左屋嘛！」

Rosina:「BB鐘意之前嗰間多啲！但而家呢間都OK！佢好貪靚，一定要個product好，process唔太緊要」

第２至５題有關ＢＢ見親其他狗就猛吠，到底佢想玩定想打呢:

Rosina: 「佢唔鈡意其他狗！係鬧交！一定會打交！唔理其他狗幾大隻佢都會打

！」

我﹕「咁即係我之前死拉住唔比佢衝去其他狗度無錯？我有時好guilty唔知其實佢係咪想玩？」

Rosina: 「No!! You are right~ He must fight and he might die!!! You must control him!! Also he feels your fear and guilt, so he can control you!!」  (打中文好攰，因為回想起佢嘅對話都係英文！总之佢話我要好有信心同好堅持咁控制住佢！攞番個control！唔好驚！)

我﹕「咁佢其實鐘唔鐘意落街行？」

Rosina: 「Yes! 但行少少散下步! 唔係長途行山嗰啲」

第６至９題有關ＢＢ咬人，尤其咬老公！

:

Rosina: 「He knows that biting is wrong!

But he wants to get control from this action！Especially he is jealous so he wanna bites Wai, he feels that he is an intruder and before BB was the very special one in your life!! This guy intrude your relation!! 」

(佢知咬人唔啱，但佢要發脾氣，控制權

！尤其是覺得老公入侵左我同ＢＢ嘅關係)

我﹕「但我之前都同好多朋友或屋企人等一齊住同玩？都唔係成日對住ＢＢ一個？」

Rosina: 「But he knows that your husband is permanent! he wouldnt be changed! Not like friends in and out in your life!! It is different」 (ＢＢ知老公係永久同固定嘅！so 唔同, 唔lumlum) 

我﹕「咁佢即係唔鐘意wai？」

Rosina: 「no!! He likes Wai but he cant stand the jealous feeling sometimes and wanna bite him! But biting is NO GO!!! He mustnt do this!! I have to negotiate with him later!! You should think of the punishment and a naughty room to losk him in when he bites again 」 (佢唔係唔鐘意老公! 但有時妒忌同唔lum就咬佢！總之咬人係完全唔容許！要我先決定如何罰佢同困住佢係一个地方如佢再犯！等佢地一陣間講數)

Communication with BB ^.^

好lumlum! 好開心! 好特別嘅一個experience!!!

我、５E、Rosina同阿Ｂ竟然傾到１１點！原本仲以為係４５分鐘！點知竟然傾左４個鐘！

大家一齊坐係地下！同ＢＢ一齊傾！除左講有關ＢＢ嘅野之外，我地仲傾左Simbaba, Louise Hay, TM, reiki等等好多野！老公放工返來仲可以一齊傾添！

我預先準備左一張list嘅問題問ＢＢ:

Questions to BB   23^rd Nov.2006

 

Do you like bathing in the Tsuen Wan Pet Shop?

 

Do you like going out to walk around in the street?

 

Do you want to play with other dogs?

 

Why do you bark loudly whenever you see other dogs?

 

Will you fight with the other dogs? (I am afraid that you will get hurt)

 

Why did you bite people?

 

What are the reasons that make you bite Wai (my husband) several times?

 

How do you feel about Wai? Does he treat you well?

 

Do you know that it hurt and frightened me when you bit others?

 

Why do you hide yourself in your toilet outside the balcony?

 

Do you know that I am having a baby?

                                                                                           

Will you treat my baby well?

 

Are you boring when we go out and you stay alone at home?

 

Do you like living here?

 

Do you still remember Simba? Did he visit you?

 

What do you dislike most?

 

Why do you always have irritated dummy? What are you allergic to?

 

Is there something you wanna tell me? Or you want me to know? ^.^

 

而Rosina都一一解答！最後, 為解決佢咬人嘅問題要同佢講條件時，佢唔啱聽，走左入廚房！威威影左呢个角度嘅我地同ＢＢ！

今晚用了好多腦力同energy了，攰了，要休息先！

下集預告: 我會詳細寫低今晚我地嘅對話！同ＢＢ嘅答案！仲有Rosina講有關Simbaba嘅野！

Animal Communicator

今日係BB嘅大日子!! 動物溝通師Rosina７點就會上來同BB傾計！完左再報告啦！lumlum

阿英's wedding

恭喜恭喜!! 阿英尋晚補擺酒，我同老公一齊出席左半個鐘！因為個胃頂住頂住唔想食飲嗰啲野，所以同靚新娘影完相，同新郎哥吹陣水就走了！

最攪笑同lumlum嘅係阿堅竟然係伴郎！阿英，你係得嘅！下年四月就到阿堅結婚了！佢同阿Pearl會去四川、苗族村等等嘅山水大自然地方影結婚相！嘩！好有型呀！期待你嘅wedding啦！

代課的最後一天

返工嘅時問真係過得好快！最後一日代課，有少少唔捨得！另一方面，又覺得星期四終於可以瞓飽先起身好lumlum！hehe....如果教書都可以好似老公咁返３日放２日就好啦！

同３Ｂ班小朋友對住左３日，已經有d感情了！佢地知道我係last day都問仲會唔會再見！我話當然有機會啦！佢地話咁希望曾老師繼續病唔好返咁你咪可以繼續代囉！哈！咁黑心唔啱喎！

不過校長都話好有機會要再代，因為佢似係情緒病！呢間學校近幾年成日有老師抑鬱病，係咪真係太stressful呀？校長你要留意下喇！

仲收到舊年班仔女畫嘅圖畫！每人仲有一張紙仔同我講野！thanks very much!! lumlum

最後去office簽收據！原來小學代課係$７Ｏ３一日！無分職級！所以努力左３日共賺＄２１Ｏ９！

改晒簿，寫好memo交代我３日教左乜之後都只係４點３！等到準時５點放咪要呆４５分鐘？所以好勇敢咁敲校長室問: 「校長，我好乖咁改晒簿執晒野喇，可唔可以早啲走呀？」

「當然可以啦！唔該晒你呀！下次再揾你幫手你仲代唔代呀？」

OK!! 無問題！到時再傾啦，byebye!!!

咁就好lumlum好開心咁完結左第１次代課了！

給BB的信

BB:

今日我代完課很疲累，和老公在梳化看電視食米粉時，你突然咬佢腳趾！佢突然大叫，嚇到我成個彈起！當我知道你咬佢時，我又驚又嬲！不顧一切拿起拖鞋打你並拉起你入廚房！！！

之後越諗越擔心越嬲越傷心！也顧不得肚裡的baby大哭了一塲！

我不明白......我不明白你為何會突然咬人

我怕............ 我很怕你突然的壞脾氣，每次都把我嚇得半死

我嬲.............我嬲你明知不應該，明知會被罰，但仍然如此

我恨.............我恨我聽不懂你的話，明白你的心

我擔心..........我擔心baby出世後和你的相處

星期四約了animal communicator - Rosina，她會上我地家和你傾計，希望佢能明白你, 你要坦白話我知你到底想什麽呀！

                                                                                                                                                                      永遠愛你的

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